Mirror!

Oh my goodness! Can you tell me which is which? Which one is Mimi and which one is Mama? Psychoanalyst Jane Flax says that mothers and daughters have a symbiotic relationship, which is funny, because I do see you as an extension of myself! Growing up, at school, we'd be asked to speak of those who inspire us. Without hesitation, I'd always talk about you or scribble "my mom" on the worksheet. Although I've grown up now and idolised people from all walks of life (even handsome dancing Korean men), at the heart of all that inspires me is still you. 天哪！你能分清哪个是哪个吗？哪个是“咪咪”（Mimi），哪个是“妈妈”？ 精神分析学家简·弗拉克斯（Jane Flax）曾说，母女之间存在一种共生关系——这真有意思，因为我确实把你视为我自身的一种延伸！上学时，老师常让我们谈谈那些激励自己的人。我总是毫不犹豫地谈起你，或者在作业纸上写下“我妈妈”这几个字。尽管如今我已长大成人，也曾崇拜过各行各业的偶像（甚至包括那些帅气的韩国男舞者），但在所有激励我前行的力量中，核心依然是你。